Dept. of Birthdays

Oct. 21st, 2026 07:14 pm
kaffy_r: From "Vincent and the Doctor" (Amy with sunflowers)
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To the Glorious [Bad username or unknown identity: a_phoenixdragon   ... one of the bright lights in my life, the hardest working, loveliest laughing, remarkably talented, most dedicated fanfic writer in several fandoms, most determined mother and wife, sweetest friend and most magnificent human ... Happy Birthday, my dear! May the coming year be oh, so good to you. May your wishes all come true! Let's find some time to chat, very soon; I'm so happy I met you, and that you became my friend! ]

Dept. of Birthdays

Oct. 20th, 2026 08:48 pm
kaffy_r: (See the Sky)
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Forty-Two Years Ago ...

... I was recovering from 54 hours of labor, and my son was recovering from his first tough job - the aforementioned 54 hours of labor. 

We both labored hard over the next few decades to be mother and son. It got tough at certain points, with a lot of yelling and tears. 

But we also laughed hard together, and listened to music together, and loved anime together, and appreciated surreal humor together. 

I watched him make music as a natural talent, write for and perform in radio plays, bring people to tears of laughter in those plays, and also in traditional theater. I watched as he worked through his own troubles and come out on the other side. I watched him learn how to ask for help, and how to take criticism and own his mistakes, and fall down and get back up. 

I rejoiced when he married Emily, my lovely daughter-in-law, I missed him when they headed out to Seattle eight-plus years ago, and rejoiced again when they came home to the Midwest, to Chicago. 

Today, Andy has two sons of his own, and he is as good a father as his dad was and is. I am so very proud of him. 

Happy Birthday, Andrew Louis MacNeill Berlien. You make the world so much brighter. 


Dept. of Medical Kinda-Sorta Miracles

Oct. 19th, 2026 03:32 pm
kaffy_r: Obama w/Spock hair saying anti-universal health care is illogical. (Spockbama's health care views)
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 Esophageal Fun

And by fun, I mean the laparoscopic Heller Myotomy with fundoplication that I'll be having sometime in the next couple of months. 

I'm looking forward to the operation. 

( A bit TMI, feel free to pass )
silveradept: Domo-kun, wearing glass and a blue suit with a white shirt and red tie, sitting at a table. (Domokun Anchor)
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Let us begin with a laugh: the winners of the Comedy Wildlife Photography Awards, featuring fros on giraffes, frogs in mid-flip, and all manner of happy and angy poses from the natural world captured at exactly the right frame.

Surprising only people whose view of masculinity is sufficiently calcified that it lacks both flexibility and strength, there are plenty of heterosexual men who enjoy reading the romance genre. They can't do a lot of talking about their love of romance, except to others who have already accepted that part of themselves, usually on Reddit or similar semi-private enclaves. Which feels a little bit, the way the article puts it, like men are not asking other men if they are familiar with The Premise, and checking to make sure the other person understands what's being sought before letting them into the clubhouse.

Also, I should mention that I'm still looking for a few more spots for you to fill in the tail of the statement "thank you for having a conception of masculinity that…" for this year's December Days.

A utility to create a hybrid typeface of different sources all hammered together at various intervals. For those times when you would like some form of cursed typeface or to see what you can do with cursed typefaces.

Significant files and programs that are ubiquitous across open source software, Internet servers, and such are maintained by a very small number of people, often one, sometimes two. That xkcd that gets referenced a lot is correct, except for the Nebraska part, and some of the people in charge of those utilities and files need both funding and additional people to assist them in their work. (Because, after all, at least one of them, xz, has already successfully had someone commit malicious code to them from someone who was posing as a person to relive some of that commit burden. And also, there's always the possibility that the sole maintainer will win the lottery tomorrow and decide they would like to pass on the stress and responsibility of maintenance to someone else.)

Margaret Hamilton, proving that Software Engineering is a discipline and art, and that women at the National Aeronautics and Space Administration were able to do more than be calculators, has passed on to her next mission at 90 years of age. An iconic photograph of her shows her placing the last book of the printed source code that powered the Apollo computers that took astronauts to the moon and back. Hamilton also took a strong interest in making sure that the code was robust and could recover from errors and faults in the hardware, or appropriately route computation and systems so that mission-critical functions could still perform, even if other systems were currently experiencing problems.

( And what are these fools up to now? )

Last out, Be human and make human art. No, it doesn't have to be perfect. No, it doesn't have to make money. No, don't let the plagiarism machine do it. And try not to hurt people or make the world worse with it. All in there, all of them are good ideas. And no, you don't have to be omnidisciplinary, either. I am learning, slowly, with each compliment and each attempted deflection, that "bad" art is still enjoyable, and also, the primary way I get art out into the world, regardless of whether someone else publishes it in their own place, is by accepting the possibility that it will be bad art, and that it won't go anywhere, and that will be fine. (The fact that I have so many markers of success at getting my art in front of others is still something I don't like looking at directly. If I say I'm doing it for a lark, I can get it done. If I'm doing it because I want it to be good, then it gets weaselbit.)

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